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01

When we think of Audrey Hepburn, one word always comes to mind: perfection.

Indeed, amazing beauty, extraordinary talent, temperament, kindness, and dazzling eyes, just like an angel.

The emergence of Audrey Hepburn gave birth to a group of fans, and many women aspired to be like her.

Recently, I reviewed the life of Audrey Hepburn and found that Audrey Hepburn was not perfect at all.

Behind the exquisite appearance is a scarred heart and a devastated relationship.

For Audrey Hepburn, she longed for a happy family more than a halo on her head. On the road to pursuing happiness, she suffered as much as anyone else.

Hepburn’s first husband was Meir, a third- and fourth-tier actor who had three marriages and several children. He was 15 years older than Hepburn.

Everyone was not optimistic about their relationship. After all, Meir was famous. At that time, Hepburn became famous with “Roman Holiday”.

According to Hepburn’s conditions, she could have found a man of the same age as herself and with a better reputation, but she was obsessed with Meir.

After the two got married, Hepburn was immersed in the fantasy of happiness. She thought she had found a harbor to stay. As everyone knows, behind Meir’s dignity, there is a twisted heart.

He had a strong desire to control Hepburn, and he had to intervene in everything from food, clothing, housing and transportation to work. Hepburn couldn’t stand such control, but it was useless to fight. Meir ignored Hepburn’s feelings at all.

During those days, Hepburn was so thin that she lost her appearance. What made her even more unbearable was that Meir deleted her script and spoke instead of Hepburn at the event. For a time, Hepburn was not Meir’s wife, but his puppet.

Not only that, Hepburn’s career was booming, which made Meir feel unbalanced. He tried to belittle Hepburn to fill the inner gap.

Hepburn cherished this marriage so much that in order to make Meir feel comfortable, she gave up her career and returned to her family, eager to have children.

It is true that Hepburn liked children very much, but she had 4 children for Meir, and 3 of them miscarried. When she was pregnant with her fourth child, she was already an advanced mother, and the process was difficult and suffering.

But Meir didn’t feel sorry for Hepburn at all, and had an extramarital affair at this time.

After Hepburn gave birth to her child, she finally sobered up and realized that there was no possibility of happiness in this marriage.

Get divorced and move away.

02

Hepburn met Dotty with scars all over her body and started her second marriage. Doty was a psychiatrist who brought a lot of enlightenment and comfort to Hepburn after the divorce.

Dotty is 9 years younger than Hepburn and is a fan of Hepburn. When he was very young, he vowed to marry Hepburn as his wife. In the end, his dream came true. It is really a dream story.

Dotty understood women’s hearts very well, and it only took 15 days for Hepburn to agree to her proposal.

It was a romantic time, and Dottie was such a perfect lover that Hepburn lost her mind.

Shortly after the marriage, Dottie gradually revealed her true colors.

He was around different women, scandalous news was flying everywhere, and Hepburn was pushed to the forefront again and again.

Over time, Hepburn could no longer stand Dotty’s mercy. She filed for divorce, but Dottie refused and tried her best to get her back. Hepburn relented and promised to give him another chance.

I thought Dottie would repent, but soon after, he returned to his old life. What’s even more outrageous is that Dottie actually brought her mistress home. Hepburn was heartbroken and ended the painful marriage.

Hepburn is the goddess in everyone’s mind, but her desire for family is the same as that of ordinary women. She wants a considerate husband and several lovely children.

If possible, she would be willing to put down her career and focus on her family, but she was unable to realize even such a simple wish.

03

Hepburn’s love journey was bumpy and heartbreaking. Countless people asked, why? This starts with Hepburn’s original family. Hepburn is a descendant of the aristocracy and has ancestry from four countries.

An enviable background, but not stable for a few years.

When he was 6 years old, his father left and the family broke up. This is why Hepburn fell in love with Meir, who was 15 years older than herself. The lack of father’s love, trying to make up for it from a lover, is ultimately a nightmare.

When Hepburn was 10 years old, she was framed, leading to the murder of her uncle and the fate of her two brothers.

At the age of 19, the dream of becoming a ballet dancer was shattered. Hepburn’s youth was wandering, and she was lost again and again, which made her extremely insecure and self-confident.

These are all reflected in her marriage.

In both marriages, I met a scumbag, and the reputation, wealth and status of the other party were not as good as my own. Obviously, Hepburn lacked self-confidence and did not dare to look upwards. It seemed easier to control those who were inferior to herself.

When there is a problem in the marriage, she is always the one who lowers her head to save it. Meir and Dottie made mistakes again and again, and Hepburn tried to forgive them because she was too afraid of losing them.

After divorcing Meir, she once reflected on herself and believed that she spent too much time and energy on work, which led to the breakdown of her marriage. You see, no matter how many mistakes the other party makes, she still puts all the blame on herself.

With Dottie, Hepburn even gave up her career for a time in order to stop him from being a prostitute. However, Hepburn’s low profile and humbleness only resulted in harm.

04

Everyone says Hepburn is perfect, but in fact perfection is just an illusion given to her by the public. There is no absolute perfection in this world. Behind all perfection are scars that you cannot see.

Hepburn left many classic works and stories to the world, but her life was rough. After two marriages and being cheated on several times, where did she lose?

Perhaps she has lost since she was born. The harm caused by her original family and the constraints brought by the times have left countless scars on her heart.

Even if she relied on her own strength to create her own position in the entertainment industry, it could not make up for the trauma in her heart.

There is really no need to envy Hepburn. The real Hepburn was not always delicate and elegant. She also had her embarrassing moments.

To put it another way, Hepburn does not need perfection at all. Every woman does not need perfection. Truth is more valuable than perfection.

Not to mention the collapse of Hepburn’s perfect persona, let alone the hardships of marriage despite being the most beautiful woman in the country, what did she do wrong?

Maybe Hepburn did nothing wrong, but loving and being loved is a lesson that each of us must learn.

The terrible thing is not falling in love, the terrible thing is that you can never get up again.

In his later years, Hepburn found true love, insisted on doing charity work, and finally fulfilled his life.

Although Hepburn was not perfect, she lived the most real and wonderful life.

May you and I still feel that this world is worth it after going through thousands of sailings.

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